Shaping Your Family

Over the next year, your household will go through many changes. If this is your first child, you and your partner will have to adjust to the idea of being a family. If you have older children, help them adjust to the new baby. Sharing chores, time, and attention is something you'll all need to work on. If you're a single mother, you may find that your baby has a "family" of friends as well as relations.

Share Activities

As a newborn, your baby has many needs. These must be blended into the family's style. Take the baby on outings, so he or she is part of the family from the beginning. Involve everyone in activities you all can enjoy doing together.

Safety Tips

Buckle up baby whenever you go for a drive. It's the law and it's a smart thing to do. Car seats protect your baby in the event of a sudden stop or crash. Always use a federally approved car seat and follow the tips below.

• Car seats are safest when placed facing backward in the back seat.

• Do not place your baby in the front passenger seat if the car has a passenger-side air bag.

• If you do place a car seat up front on the passenger side, be sure your baby faces backward.

• Always secure the car seat, using the vehicle's safety belt. The owner's manual will show you the right way.

• Distractions are common with a baby in the car. For safety's sake, pull over and stop the car to care for your infant. Don't try to tend to baby and drive at the same time.

As Parents and Lovers

The demands on your relationship have just increased. So do your best to strengthen your partnership ties. Set aside time to talk every day. Put away the dinner dishes together or take a break before bedtime. Also, try to spend time alone. It will help you remember why you're together. Return to sex when it feels right and it's okay with your doctor. But don't think of breastfeeding as a form of birth control. Instead, talk with your health care provider about birth control methods that might be right for this time in your life.